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Relationship advice from AI philosophers before you act
Sage helps you reflect on love, conflict, boundaries, heartbreak, and attachment with philosopher-led dialogue. Bring the real situation and get guidance that does more than draft the next text.
Don’t rush this one. Tell me who they were to you, and what you still carry.
Reflect before reacting
Pause before the text, call, apology, boundary, or goodbye so you can see what you actually want to repair or protect.
Love with boundaries
Separate compassion from self-abandonment and name where honesty, duty, care, and self-respect meet.
Understand the pattern
Look beneath the argument into attachment, fear, expectations, grief, resentment, or avoidance.
We’ve had the same fight about money three times this month. I’ve written a long message listing every time she overspent. Should I send it?
No. A list of her failures is an argument you want to win, not a problem you want solved. Put the ledger away. Ask yourself what the money stands for: safety, probably, for you. Freedom, maybe, for her. Say that one sentence to her tonight, in person, and ask what it stands for on her side. Then come back and tell me what she said.
Different relationship questions need different wisdom
Start with Rumi for love or heartbreak, Buddha for attachment, Aristotle for friendship and virtue, or Marcus Aurelius for conflict outside your control.
Rumi
For love and heartbreak
Bring this to Rumi“Am I grieving them, or who I was with them?”
Best for love, longing, grief, heartbreak, tenderness, and spiritual honesty.
Buddha
For attachment and jealousy
Bring this to Buddha“What am I clinging to, and what is it costing me?”
Best for attachment, compassion, clinging, jealousy, and the suffering around a relationship.
Aristotle
For friendship and what you owe each other
Bring this to Aristotle“What does a good relationship actually ask of me?”
Best for friendship, character, trust, virtue, and what a good relationship asks of you.
Marcus Aurelius
For conflict
Bring this to Marcus“What here is mine to fix, and what never was?”
Best for conflict, difficult people, restraint, and what is outside your control.
Socrates
For the story you tell yourself
Bring this to Socrates“Is that true, or is it just what I keep saying?”
Best for the story you keep telling about them, examined one question at a time before you decide.
Krishna
For duty and desire
Bring this to Krishna“What do I owe, and what am I allowed to want?”
Best for family, obligation, staying for others, and acting well without being ruled by the outcome.
Reflection is free. Upgrade when it becomes practice.
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Sage is for reflection, not crisis support or safety planning. If there is abuse, coercion, danger, severe distress, or a clinical concern, contact emergency services, trusted people, or qualified professional support.
Common questions
What is an AI relationship advice app?
An AI relationship advice app is a conversational tool people use for conflict, dating, communication, breakups, boundaries, or love. Sage approaches relationship guidance as philosophical reflection rather than quick scripts.
Is Sage good for relationship advice?
Sage can help with self-reflection, communication, boundaries, attachment, forgiveness, grief, love, and conflict. It is best when you want to understand your role and values before acting.
Which philosopher should I talk to about relationships?
Start with Rumi for love, grief, longing, or heartbreak; Buddha for attachment and compassion; Aristotle for friendship and character; Marcus Aurelius for difficult people and conflict outside your control.
Can Sage write a relationship text for me?
Sage can help you think through what a message should say, but it works best when you reflect first. The goal is not just a smoother text; it is a clearer motive and a wiser next step.
Can Sage replace couples therapy?
No. Sage is not therapy, crisis care, or a substitute for qualified human support. If there is abuse, coercion, danger, severe distress, or a clinical concern, use professional or emergency support.
Is there a free AI relationship advice app?
Yes. Sage Basic is free and includes up to 10 text messages per day and 100 per month, access to every Sage mentor, saved insights, and 30 days of conversation history. No card is needed for the free plan. Sage Plus adds unlimited text guidance, and Sage Pro adds voice guidance.
Can I try Sage before subscribing?
Yes. Sage Basic is free and includes up to 10 text messages per day and 100 per month, access to every Sage mentor, saved insights, and 30 days of conversation history. No card is needed for the free plan. Sage Plus adds unlimited text guidance, and Sage Pro adds voice guidance.
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